We’ve all had moments we wish we could go back and redo.
The interview where you stumbled.
The time you lost your cool with your kids.
The investment you made in haste.
The words you didn’t say, or the habits you couldn’t break.
Ever wondered: Why did I do that?
And then, like a slow lightbulb turning on—you realise, “Now I know better.”
When you know better, do better—that’s the real turning point.
The question is, what do you do next?
A Scene From Real Life: Late Night, Loud Thoughts
A Scene From Real Life: Late Night, Loud Thoughts
It’s 11:48 p.m. in a modest apartment in Pune. Prakash, a 35-year-old software engineer, sits motionless in front of his glowing laptop screen. His eyes are dry, his back aches from hours of hunching, and though he’s completed a dozen tasks, his heart feels strangely heavy. The house is quiet—his kids are asleep, and his wife stopped trying to talk hours ago. He tells himself he’s being a good provider, meeting deadlines, attending back-to-back Zoom meetings, toggling between Jira tickets and Slack pings. But deep inside, something feels off.
As he scrolls through Instagram in a daze, a reel pops up with a calm voice that says, “When you know better, do better.” It’s a Maya Angelou quote. He swipes past it, but those words stick. That night, instead of doom-scrolling, he lies awake in the dark, reflecting. I know I’ve been ignoring my health. I know I’ve been snapping at home. I know my Sundays are no longer family days—they’re just recovery from exhaustion.
And in that quiet, uncomfortable honesty—the shift begins.
Why Most People Don’t Do Better (Even When They Know Better)
Let’s be honest—knowing better doesn’t automatically fix anything.
Here’s why:
- Change feels scary, even when it’s good for us.
- You’re tired—mentally, physically, emotionally.
- Old habits are sticky. They fit like worn-out slippers.
- You don’t want to fail again, so you don’t even try.
And for the Indian middle-class worker, there’s always something else first.
Boss’s calls. Kids’ exams. Monthly EMI. Family WhatsApp drama.
You survive. But you don’t evolve.
That’s why this principle is powerful:
When you know better, do better. Not perfectly. Not completely. Just… better.
“Better” Isn’t Big. It’s Real.
This isn’t about throwing away your routine and starting some monk-mode lifestyle.
It’s about tiny shifts that fit your real life.
For example:
| You Know Better | So Do Better By... |
|---|---|
| Processed food drains energy | Carrying soaked almonds to work |
| Sleep matters | Keeping your phone in another room at night |
| Arguments hurt your marriage | Pausing before reacting |
| Blind saving won’t create wealth | Learning SIPs or index funds |
| Your career feels stuck | Booking a mentorship session |
Each change seems small. But together? They stack. They transform.
Simple Ways to Start Doing Better
When you know better, do better—but how? Start small, stay consistent, and give yourself space to grow.
1. Write Your “Now I Know” List
Every time you learn something new—about yourself, work, or life—write it down. A simple line like “I lose focus in meetings when I’m unprepared” can spark a powerful habit. You’ll begin turning reflection into direction.
2. One Tiny Shift a Week
Forget big resolutions. Just take one micro-action each week.
If you’ve realised that Sunday night binge-watching wrecks your Monday—decide to shut off screens by 11 p.m. Small steps create momentum without stress.
3. Track the Change
Use a simple tool like The Life TrackR to log what you learned, what you tried, and how it felt. You’ll start seeing patterns—and your own progress—clearly. It’s not about perfection. It’s about paying attention.
4. Grace Over Guilt
Didn’t do better yesterday? That’s okay. You’re trying today. And that counts.
Change isn’t a straight road—it’s a choice you make again and again. Be kind to yourself. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
Quotes That Hit Home
“If you can’t do great things, do small things in a great way.” – Napoleon Hill and belief of the The Life TrackR
“Don’t wait until you’ve reached your goal to be proud of yourself. Be proud of every step you take.” – Karen Salmansohn and belief of the The Life TrackR
“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second-best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb and belief of the The Life TrackR
Let these be the voices in your head, not guilt or doubt.
From Awareness to Action: Start Today
Let’s make this real.
Write down ONE thing you now know better.
Just one.
Now, ask:
🟢 What’s one action I can take this week that shows I’ve truly learned this?
Repeat. Grow. Repeat.
You don’t need a dramatic change. You need consistent, conscious action.
And if you need help staying on track?
Use The Life TrackR—it’s designed for people like you: goal-getters, late bloomers, busy employees, and thoughtful dreamers.
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Editor’s Note: This article was originally published here https://thelifetrackr.com/when-you-know-better-do-better-a-real-rule-that-can-change-your-life/ by @Kairav and @krutika